A Crow for the Man I Became

What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?

You know, it’s funny—when you’ve got as many tattoos as I do, finding the space for another one becomes its own form of art. I mean, where do you put it without looking like a human canvas?

I’ve got most of the tattoos I’ve wanted, each one telling a story, each piece of ink marking a moment in time. But if I’m being real, there’s one I’ve always held back on, a tattoo that’s been sitting in the back of my mind for over two decades.

See, about 25 years ago, I made a decision—no regrets, just a choice. I got a tattoo on the back of my neck that, well, it doesn’t quite speak to me the way it used to. If I could spare the time and the funds for another therapy session at The Ink Inn, I’d cover it up with something that’s been on my mind for years: a crow in flight, based on one of my photographs.

This is the picture I had in mind

The crow. Now, here’s where it gets interesting. You don’t just throw a bird like that on your skin without understanding the weight it carries. The crow isn’t just a bird—it’s a symbol, a messenger, and honestly, it’s misunderstood. People often link them to death or bad luck, but the deeper meaning is far richer.

Crows represent transformation—change that’s profound, often unseen, but always necessary. They’re tied to mystery, intelligence, and wisdom, connecting the spiritual and the physical worlds. They’re protectors, guides, survivors.

In a way, I see a lot of myself in the crow. I’ve had my own moments of darkness, my own battles with transformation, but that’s where wisdom comes from, right? In the chaos, the transformation, and the understanding that comes from it.

So, yeah. If I had the space, the time, and the cash for one more session, I’d add that crow. Not just for the aesthetic, but for the symbolism. Because life, like the crow, is all about navigating the mysteries, embracing change, and flying through it with purpose.

Stay Safe

BC

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About Bob W Christian

Bob W Christian has been writing poetry for more than 20 years. He started as a way to help to process his thoughts and emotions as an autistic man, and to address the impact of CPTSD. As he wrote, and slowly gained the confidence to share his poems, he was given incredibly positive feedback, which spurred him to write more. During that time, he has written six books, and had numerous guest publications in books and magazines around the world. His work has earned several accolades recently, including recognition in the Dark Poet’s Club 2025 competition. Alongside poetry, Bob enjoys photographing nature and birds, and is often praised for his keen eye behind the lens. A husband, father and grandfather, he regularly shares his observations, reflections and creative work through his personal blog, The Ramblings of Bob Christian.

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