The man behind the middle name

What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?

My middle name is Walter. Not because of some long family tradition — just one man.

Walter was my maternal grandfather, and he stepped into my life when I was a boy and needed a male role model.

Grandad was a retired firefighter and one of those people who could seemingly do anything — paint signs, grow a garden, fix whatever was broken. But the real lessons he gave me weren’t about skills. They were about character.

He taught me to polish my shoes and make an effort when I went out — not because appearances are everything, but because it shows respect for the world around you.
He taught me to help people without worrying about who they are or where they come from.
And he taught me that a man’s word should mean something.

I haven’t always lived up to his standard — life has a way of tripping you up — but carrying his name reminds me of the person I should try to be.

That’s why I write as Bob W Christian. The “W” is for Walter. It’s a quiet nod to the man who helped shape me.

So no, Walter isn’t a flashy middle name. But to me it represents a good man, a proper gentleman, and someone I still try to make proud.

And that’s reason enough to keep it.

Stay safe,
BC

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About Bob W Christian

Bob W Christian has been writing poetry for more than 20 years. He started as a way to help to process his thoughts and emotions as an autistic man, and to address the impact of CPTSD. As he wrote, and slowly gained the confidence to share his poems, he was given incredibly positive feedback, which spurred him to write more. During that time, he has written six books, and had numerous guest publications in books and magazines around the world. His work has earned several accolades recently, including recognition in the Dark Poet’s Club 2025 competition. Alongside poetry, Bob enjoys photographing nature and birds, and is often praised for his keen eye behind the lens. A husband, father and grandfather, he regularly shares his observations, reflections and creative work through his personal blog, The Ramblings of Bob Christian.

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